throw something at someone—
1. throw smth. so as to hit a person:
- One of the combatants threw a small paving-stone at his opponent.
2. (of a question, remark, etc.) say in a casual or rather aggressive way:
- I’m sorry about throwing all these random suggestions at you.
throw something to someone—throw smth. so that a person could get hold of it:
- After twice miscounting the sum, he threw the whole to his daughter.